A Braver Space

Now more than ever,


We gather with a vision

for a new world

in which everyone belongs.

Holding this image

creates more capacity

for each of us to support

the creation of this



Beloved is a spontaneous village, and as such it asks that we be village-minded. Toward that end, we are creating community agreements that make our spaces not just safer but braver.

The distinction is in how we promise to show up both in love and in conflict: with the vow to keep an open heart, an elastic mind, and a commitment to learning.

Brave spaces also ask that we tend properly to our nervous systems so we may become the containers that can hold the depth, complexity, shame, and grief of the times in which we find ourselves.

It is never a question of, “if there is harm.” It is always a question of, “when harm happens, how will we face it together?”


“In order to build the movements

capable of

transforming our world,

we have to

do our best to live

with one foot in the world we have not yet created."

–Aurora Levins Morales


nature mandala
Photo: Melissa Robin Photography

We acknowledge that dominant culture in North America is ill-equipped to reckon with the widespread nature of centuries of diverse traumas unfurling everywhere, from social media to our own communities.

In this way, perhaps our reach exceeds our grasp. We do believe, however, that transformation is possible and that we all must proceed as if each and every one of us is needed.

The word “vow” comes from an ancient word that meant “I pray.”


May these vows


for how it might look

to live

as if this were true.




We Vow To

Honor consent. We vow to respect the physical, mental, energetic, psychic, and emotional boundaries set by our community members. We understand that if others do not offer us their enthusiastic consent, then it is our responsibility to enthusiastically honor their boundaries and to refrain from engaging with them without their explicit permission. We understand that consent is verbal and non-verbal and we understand that we do not have the right to touch anyone who does not extend that right to us directly.

We Vow To

Accept accountability for what we say and do. We agree to prioritize the impact of our actions over our intentions. We work to correct any harm we might cause. We hold ourselves and others accountable and call for the support of event staff as needed. We agree to consider apologies as a three step spectrum: apologizing without excuse or blaming others for holding us accountable, doing the necessary work to understand our impact, and stopping the harmful behavior immediately. We eschew punitive justice and disposability in favor of transformative, healing justice for which the entire community is responsible. In this way, we agree to be village-minded when approaching conflict and the duty of repair.

We Vow To

Look out for one another. If we observe harmful behavior or interactions where mutual consent is unclear or directly violated, we bring our concern to light by compassionately checking in with the person who may need our support. We draw on the support of friends, fellow attendees, and event staff when needed. Use our incident report form if you need our support.


“What makes a community or individual


is not self-mastery or will – it is the

quality, strength, and inclusivity

of our

relational bonds.”

–Lucién Demaris


a group of flowers on some mossy wood
Photo: Foster Snell

We Vow To

Honor sacred music and sacred cultural practices from global communities, indigenous communities and communities of color.

We Vow To

Challenge systems of racism, sexism, ableism, sizeism, fatphobia, transphobia, queerphobia, classism, and any and all other forms of oppression established to marginalize, exclude, and erase bodies, identities, and narratives within our communities.

We Vow To

Embrace the vulnerability that comes with the radical practice of empathy and accountability.

We Vow To

Take responsibility for the energy we bring into the space, and for unpacking our own biases, and unintegrated emotional ‘shadow’ material.





Beloved believes everyone should feel safe during our events. Violations of consent will not be tolerated in our spaces. Please speak with any staff person at an event and if you need support, please contact us. We will follow your lead and work with you to try to make sure it does not happen again and that you continue to feel safe at our events.


Beloved has a zero tolerance policy for harassment of any kind

including but not limited to: race, color, national origin, gender identity, gender presentation, sexual orientation, age, body size, disability, appearance, religion, citizenship, pregnancy.


Harassment includes but is not limited to: stalking, verbal or physical intimidation, offensive verbal comments, physical assault and/or battery, harassing or non-consensual photography or recording outside Beloved’s terms and conditions, bathroom or affinity space policing, inappropriate physical contact, unwelcome physical attention.

land art altar
Photo: Melissa Robin Photography








In addition to systemic hierarchies, power differentials are contextual and common, existing for parents with children, musicians with fans, organizers with attendees, healers/teachers with clients/students. With privilege and authority comes the responsibility to avoid falling into patterns of manipulation, coercion, and overt violations of consent.

Our CARE Team provides consent education, trains and facilitates bystander intervention, resources and support for survivors of sexual assault and interpersonal violence, and a place for anyone wishing to learn more about these issues.


“There’s a way

out of this mess,

and it requires each of us to

begin with our own body.

You and your body

are important parts of the solution.

Your body

—all of our bodies—

are where changing the status quo

must begin.”

–Resmaa Menakem


two people touching hands
Photo: Amandal Photography
Some Initiatives:
  • Our CARE Team provides consent education; resources and support for survivors of sexual assault and interpersonal violence; and a place for anyone wishing to learn more about these issues to engage.
  • We are providing sanctuary spaces for people who hold identities which are marginalized in dominant culture, and thus at the Festival as well.
  • Beloved does not tolerate harassment and has formed a community-based Healing Justice and Accountability Council to support the safety of everyone involved with Beloved.
  • We are curating event programming that supports our community in making this transformation (PLEASE SUPPORT THIS WORK – The Stage, Saturday afternoon).
  • We have developed these Brave Space Vows as a set of guiding community principles for all staff and event participants to adhere to.
  • We are working to acknowledge that the event takes place on stolen land, that the indigenous people of this land have an enduring relationship with the land that must be respected. We are working to begin to repair the harm caused by avoiding this acknowledgment for far too long.


Harm Reduction: Harm reduction is a philosophy of living, surviving and resisting oppression and violence that centers self-determination and non-condemning access to an array of options.

Harm reduction is a set of practices that has been gifted to us by Queer and Transgender people of color, drug users, people in the se trade and survivors of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Harm reduction is not a public health invention or a social work intervention, even though it has been used effectively in those fields. –Fumbling Towards Repair, A Workbook for Community Accountability Facilitators

Transformative Justice: Transformative Justice (TJ) seeks to provide people who experience violence with immediate safety and long-term healing and reparations while holding people who commit violence accountable within and by their communities. TJ centers survivor safety, healing, and agency. TJ centers the goals of accountability and transformation of those who abuse or cause harm. TJ centers the goals of community response and accountability. TJ is the transformation of the community and social conditions that create and perpetuate violence – systems of oppression, exploitation, domination, and state violence. – Generation FIVE, Fumbling Towards Repair

TJ is “a way to respond to violence within our communities in ways that 1) don’t create more harm and violence and 2) actively work to cultivate the very things that we know will prevent violence, such as accountability, healing, trust, connection, safety.” –Mia Mingus, disability justice organizer


“Transformative Justice

recognizes that

oppression is at the root of all forms of harm,

abuse, and assault.

As a practice it therefore aims to address and confront those oppressions

on all levels

and treats this concept as an integral part to

accountability and healing.”

–Philly Stands Up


Healing Justice: Healing Justice means we all deserve to heal on our terms and we confront oppressive systems that get in our way. We honor the trauma and resilience of generations that came before us and use interactive, daily practices that anyone can do. Healing Justice is a reminder to social movements that the concept of action should be expanded to support the self-determination, interdependence, resilience & resistance of those most impacted by oppression. Healing Justice is revolutionary in confronting the capitalist, colonial, individualistic paradigms that tell us we are alone when we seek out healing. – definition taken from Young Women’s Empowerment Project and the Chicago Healing Justice Learning Circle.

See also:
Making Spaces Safer
Emergent Strategy
My Grandmother's Hands
Conflict Is Not Abuse
The Body Keeps The Score
The Art of Effective Facilitation
Fumbling Towards Repair
Turn This World Inside Out
Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice